SDDE-757 In my house, when we get scolded, we get our dicks jerked off. Is it the same in other houses too?

After my dad passed away, my mom started stroking my dick whenever I did something naughty. I'd always done it, so I didn't think it was weird. My mom was kind at the time, and let me suck on her breasts, and I started to get some weird juices, which felt really good. Is this a toxic parenting style?